do you really need to rub it in may face that i didnt get it and u did? like if one person got cake and you didnt, image the feeling of that person jumping up and screaming right in front of you? how would you feelif you were sad and crying? it just makes u realize how shallow they are for actually being joyous when you are there feeling melancholy. and even more so, im not as disappointed that i didnt get what i deserve..i am more disappointed with the that person who go the cake and didnt deserve it. it feels like im getting slapped in the face.